Theatrically speaking, our marriage is like a mystery-thriller-comedy. Due to its uniqueness, I thought it might be fun to invite you onto our bed for some honest convo: Over the years, Raul & I have been misunderstood & we get that. We are not normal.  OK, I am not normal. So how have we made it 12 years?  Though we don’t have a Dr. Phil answer, we can share our answer. Unlike the ole’ adage, it’s actually not our opposites that attract–it’s our one similarity….G-O-D. You see, we don’t have the luxury of having a plethora of similarities.  We don’t have the same I.Q., same childhood experiences, same strengths or same weaknesses. We don’t handle conflict the same. We don’t always love each other with the same intensity. We don’t lead the same, we don’t follow the same. So when alllllllllllllllll these differences are challenged, we HAVE to have SOMETHING that holds us together. Thank God we have God. For some, opposites may attract, but for us, God is the attraction. We both love God; seek to obey Him & hope to one day hear him say, “Well done.” Without our similar foundation of God–our differences would rip us apart. Circumstances can divide; humans can repel; but God attracts. So what will keep Raul & Heather under one roof, in one bed, for years to come? One God. 🙂 Thanks for joining us on our bed today. We hope this encouraged someone.

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